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Where does love start or come from??

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So to have good love, where should it start? We shared this question some days ago here on face book and I am back to simply answer it. View it this way. When God (love) created us, he did that with love and made us in his image (the image of love). So many of you pretend that you can live without love, but that is an illusion. It is in the fiber of love that we are all made. Love is natural and rooted in every individual. Some of us have ever wondered if terrorists have love! And I think they have much of it that it turns them crazy. If you have ever followed some of these cases, most of them are doing what they do for the families they love, for the beliefs they cherish, for the gods they serve, for the nations they care about. This is love though in disguise. There is a lot needed to explain what exactly is going on in the world of love for a terrorist or serial killer but simply know that they have love, it is in their blood too.

Tip 3 of maintaining your faithfulness to your lover: Expect every fault in her to be five times worse in other women

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For those who follow my articles, our first tip was from Henry Mutebe and it was about carrying small photos of your lover and children with you in your pocket money or any other documents that you carry with you anytime everywhere. The second tip was trying to learn and do most of the home chores. We understood that most girls or ladies are gonna utilize the times when your woman is absent or away in the name of cooking, washing, sweeping or organizing the house. If a man is comfortable with these small house chores, then he is at a low risk of being invaded with these so called ‘friends of your wife’. Today, we are sharing our tip number three. Follow closely.

Administration lesson 2: Do not be rigid, be flexible for the effectiveness of your business.

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So many officers and stakeholders push people aside and help no one in the name of obeying system and following rules. This is dangerous. Laws and rules are meant to help people and make them get work done not the other round. This means that every effort should be made to make sure that the law is working for the interest of people not the vise versa. Listen, you are likely going to breakdown your business if you listen so much to rules than to your common sense especially in situations that require some practical thinking.

Administration lesson 1: Why most administrators, managers or bosses are troubling our lives

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You see, there those people who never realize or understand the level they have been promoted too and keep competing for down levels with their staffs. Many administrators, bosses or managers have a problem with self-esteem. Most of them maybe believed that the world would kneel down to them because of their positions but it did not happen. What happens next? They see every individual, including their staffs as threats to their positions and respects. While this is okay( I mean to consider everyone as a fellow competitor), for them, they misunderstand the whole idea. What happens next? They trouble even the young one looking for help from them for they feel that even this vulnerable person is a competitor, a threat to their positions.

Who said that Charity begins at home? And what is charity anyway? What is home??

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Many people have ever come across this proverb and confused the word home with where they are born from (their parents, brothers, sisters and relatives). In the 1st century, a Wise-man called Jesus was born. In the Pursue of the same fulfillment of charity beginning at home, he started proclaiming God's message and the relief in life starting with his people. But surprisingly, they did not believe in Him. I don't think that He did not known what would result; I think he wanted us to learn something. He said, "It is hard for a prophet to be accepted among his own people". And one day when his mother sent for Him while he was having good times with friends, he said, "My mother and brothers are those we share God's kingdom".

Romance is from God, but not from the goddess Eros.

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During the Greece-Roman dominance over the world in culture, philosophers used to think of romantic love as devilish. This was simply because the word Eros (romance) was also the name of the Greek goddess of love and relationships called Eros. In that aspect, all the people were convinced that falling in love with a woman was the same as falling into hell.Actually, that could be one of the reasons why St. Paul met some questions regarding staying single or marrying.

It is not your passion, desire or longing that is depreciating, but your knowledge.

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In the articles about Desire and its power in making us achievers, we agreed that desire is our natural guide to our destinations. Actually, in our series of understanding God, ourselves and Heaven, we found out that it is our desires that make our lives. Our enjoyment in life is the fulfillment of our desires and giving up on your desire is exactly giving up on your life. But what if our desire for what we know is good is little? What if our desire for what most call good has depreciated? If our core make-up is our naturally implanted desires, how come we lose the desire for that which makes us? How come we desire less going to heaven but can long to fly in a plane more? How come we desire less going to church but yearn for going to the club? How come we desire less our women and desire sleeping with other people’s wives? What exactly is happening? And then are we not doomed that our desire for such great good is dead? In this article, I am going to try to answer it, pay attention.

Am i the one losing or it is the bank???

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Crane bank, Kampala central has a crazy marketer lady. I will not say her name. So I went to open up a bank account called Daily access account. I paid the money, my ID was photocopied and I was told that I would receive my account number on my phone two days from that day of registration. Two days passed, 4 days passed and a week passed without any call. So I called them, that lady said, "Aaah you see, your ID was rejected". "Why didn't you communicate?" I asked. Haahha, she was already off the phone.

Nobody can understand exactlty what you feel, only God can. Trust me on this.

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You see, there are some special lessons you will never understand unless you are experiencing them yourselves. There are those life situations that each one of us passes through and there is no way of explaining the same situation to someone else. My old brother Julius told me, "Everyone has got a situation he is unable to explain to his close people, wife, friend, or even your pastor but only you and God knows well what it is all about". I believe him. Many people, councilors, your pastor or friend or even your wife can tell you that he or she knows and understands how you feel inside, but the truth is no one understands you and what you are going through. We try to imagine the pain a patient is feeling but we never perceive it exactly like the patient himself. People who have experienced what you are going through now may still not perceive it all since people react differently to even similar situations. No one understands deeply what you are going through but God

God's word with Nemvicx: Jeremiah chapter 48.

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The workers that cannot miss at any workplace: THE NAGGING ONES

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You see, at workplace, there will always be those people who are quarrelsome. They cannot answer an asked question or pull you a chair without a word. When we sit, you hear them narrating the stories of those workers who dodge a lot, who do little, who have other businesses and maybe how ugly or unfit their wives are. I have come to appreciate that and so i never get upset, i enjoy the madness. And every work has its own troubles, you cannot resign so you find peace somewhere else, there may be worse people. But what counts?? Here is a trick, learn how to please and get close to your boss and the leave the haters. Whenever i enter a new job or new place, my point is to impress the manager or the in-charge. And these big people can easily be pleased, of course not all of them.

I disagree, women want big things

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I have heard this song that women just want small things that can make them happy. I, however, have been thinking about why then men are unable to give out such small things and make life easy and joyful. The answer has sounded in my mind now, women want big things but not the small ones. What the world calls small things are the big things in reality. If not that, why the hell would there be all these bad moments between lovers that had intentions for good and happiness? How come no one has ever analyzed this and give the true value to these things that women want us to do for them. Yes, i have analyzed it for myself and for you.

You are not what say you are, you are what you say and think about yourself.

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I remember as if it was just yesterday when everyone told me that i was going nowhere. I remember my friends explaining to me how some kind of lives and jobs were meant for others but not me. But that was not me. What they saw in me was different from what i knew about myself. And just yesterday in college, everyone saw me as a fallen angel, i was bad, a sinner, a losing giant, but deep within me i was seeing growth and some kind of change. It was bitter according to them, but it was better according to me. You see, even your wife can misunderstand you. There are things that she can believe that you are yet you are not, you are what you think and say about yourself.

Waiting, it is not bad unless badly done

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You see, many motivational speakers have always told you that if you wait for the right time, you will never make it. But I say, yes, you have to wait for the right time and be doing something else meanwhile. Listen, there is such a thing as bad timing. For those who read my articles, we proposed that it is bad to tell your boss to increase your salary when he has been having quarrels with workers over late coming. It is a terrible mistake to demand that your father should increase your school pocket money when your report is poor that semester or term. It is a terrible mistake to rise up a hand and question your preacher when he is in the middle of sermon isn’t it? Anyway, there is bad timing and good timing. And allow me to say that some of our failures are due to bad timing.

Unexpected sunshine (inspired by Joel Osteen)

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You see, there are lives we are used to. There are troubles we know we can't escape. There are conditions and situations that have inevitably became part of us and so we have rested and accepted the defeat. Even people reach at a point and you, everything is clear, you are finished. The medical report says you have cancer, how else do you expect life? That job needs connection to have it, how dare you dream of it from down there? This season is for clouds, where else do you expect sunshine?

The power of 'I am' (inspired by Joel Osteen)

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We have all done this mistake, prophesying defeat and failure upon our lives. Situations like sickness, loneliness, jobless, poverty have hit us on our bones to the point of us inevitably accepting death and hear our words in such times, " Oh God, i am destroyed. I am a failure. I am dull. This problem is too big, i cannot survive it. That interview, i cannot make it. I am hated, i am unloved, i am lonely and i am unfavored" and so many other terrible prophesies about our lives. I did this mistake some days ago and i have done it more than often: I knew it, i cannot make it. This is bad.