I disagree, women want big things
Alas! So how come you get these things that come from deep within our hearts, that require our total humbleness and submission, that require a greater sacrifice of our heart's pride, and call them 'small things'???? I am pissed and angry at this. I know so many women do not know that what they are asking for is bigger and greater and so think that men are not serious if even such 'small things' cannot be guaranteed. Listen, there is no such a small thing whose strings are attached onto the heart. Please, learn how to value things that you request for.
What is the point today? Our lives, i mean, my life is sour and sad because i have often failed to give in abundance what is small and readily available according to women, but now i see that i failed simply because it is not small, instead, it is the biggest that i can offer and it cannot be that easy to provide it all the time. No more stresses or being angry with myself, at least, not too much. I now know that i have to sacrifice hard, kill myself hard and close my eyes enough if i am to provide these items, intangible great things of the heart. And only God can make any man satisfy his wife in these things. So men out there, do not worry. You are not so much bad as women think, you are not failing in small things as women think, you are failing while trying to deliver the greatest things there can be.
Lastly, women are not gonna be satisfied with these things they usually call small until they realize that actually what they are requesting for are great and big things there can be. " Just hold me, just calm me down, just stay near all the day, just tell me nice things after making me angry, just come home with a smile and warm kiss everyday, just hug me when i am mad at you, just touch me when i am abusing you, just say sorry when you annoy me, just listen to me when i am complaining, just let me cry on your laps even when you are the cause for my cry, those 'small things' are the ones that i want" women say. And i wonder how dare they call them small when many men are failing at them?
Conclusion: Men should work hard to give these intangible things to women but term them as the greatest they can offer and thus seek God's help and be slow with themselves in case of some failing or shortages. Women should rename these things ad the greatest and thus appreciate the few of them they get, help their husbands to make them come true too and seek God's guidance too. I am done, that is my heart.
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