Too good to be mine: The falling of angels and gods

When I fell in love with Winnie, she was too good. She was perfect. She made me feel like a baby because of her too much care. We were both still at school but in those few months that I had started that walk, my life completely changed from the physical makeup to my soul; I was in love with angel. What happened next must happen to you too or it already happened: People, friends, leaders and readers started bringing me gospels, words about her, terrible mistakes that she could have made, and all kinds of evidences that she was not doing good to save me but to destroy me. I cannot say all the words they said, the things they felt could be happening, the reasons they thought she was too good, it was all terrible!!! The truth is that I almost lost the best gift I will ever have. But I was in love and equally too good to just lose out so I held on and believed in the good she was. So what? Here WE are and still enjoying the very good they thought would not last, enjoying the best out that faith.

You see, there people who are scared of things that are so good. They have been trained and set to believe that everything in this world comes through sweating and troubles and thus will not believe in anything that seems to be so good, easy, and friendly. There are people around us who cannot believe that something extraordinarily good and almost free can happen to them, people who never accepted that such love that was between me and my girlfriend then was just for good, happening for free, and yet real. This article is gonna be my second best article of this month, the first one was entitled; ‘No one understands what you are going through, not even your mother or wife, but only God’. Why am I grading these articles? They are from deep with in my heart.

Back to the point, if you really want to make success in this world, stop believing in negativity, torture and brutality of this world, create your own paradise within this real world of troubles. Yeah, the truth is that our world is brutal, full of deception and nothing good is likely to happen without a big cost, but guys, that can be changed with your faith. Listen, the most priceless things of this world have no cost. Actually, the things that bear cost are simply not so good (after all they have got a price). Stop losing trust in your friends because they are so good, stop losing trust in your God because he is saying that He will do a lot of good for you at no cost. Listen, there are many who have lost out in businesses simply because the business was too good to believe! How come you do not believe that good things can happen to you at no cost or less cost? Isn’t that self-destruction? Isn’t that creating a world of troubles and brutality for you?

Yeah, there is temptation in so many of the good things that approach us, but you are not going to refuse every offer so you are safe. Yeah, many people, I mean the evil ones, come with tempting goodness yet only destruction lies behind, but are you going to shoot them out by simply ignoring any sign of goodness and kindness coming to you? That can be the greatest mistake and sin of your life: Refusing to believe in the good, in grace, in affection, in love, in salvation without cost. It is actually better to be tempted into brutality by means of the goodness shown to you than to ignore some kind of goodness and realize later that it was real. Regrets of having missed opportunities are terrible and life torturing compared to experiences of pain, brutality, betrayals, and sins encountered trying to chase or seek goodness. This is true.

Guys, my friend, I am writing this from my heart and experience, believe me when I say that you can also receive goodness without a big cost. Believe me when I say that the lady who smiled and said she admired you meant it. Believe me when I say that Jesus came here for you and me. Listen, that business that seems too good to be true could actually be true, follow up. Remember, it is better and forgivable to fall into a trap and a sin trying to chase good things, good soul, and clean life than finding yourself in a mess of sins and destruction simply because you did not trust a hand or goodness from a savior of some kind. They taught us that there is no gain without pain, there is sweet without sweat, but I ask, have you not met men who sweat but gain nothing? Have you not seen men who have gone through pain of all sorts but have no gains? And then have you not seen people who made it with little efforts? Are you telling me that you do not see that even up to now I am enjoying the love of a woman they said that her goodness was too much to be true few years ago?
What is the point today? Be positive as you go out today. Expect the best to happen to you without you necessarily paying for them. Expect goodness from people, from friends, from your boss and from God without you paying for it or working for it first. And I have come to believe that the more you believe in goodness happening for the ‘simple’ or ‘small’ or ‘unworthy’ YOU, the more it happens for you. People will start wondering what you gave to your manager to be loved that so much! People will wonder what you paid to have that job! People will wonder how come it happens for you the little one! BUT the key is simply YOUR FAITH AND TRUST IN GOODNESS. People have been tortured and harassed a lot, people have been stressed, people have been betrayed, and thus no longer believe in smiling faces. But are you going to let their bad past experiences hinder you from experiencing it yourself and your way??? Good things can happen to you, believe me.

In the article, the black side of experience, we discussed how our bad past or even that of our friends can make us lose the bright days ahead by distrusting very good or opportunity that shows up. In that article, we agreed that people have had their time of trying and experiencing their own mistakes and sins, it your time to do your own sinning and experiencing, do not rely so much on their past experiences. This is a new day with the new you, good things can happen now with you yet they could not happen then with those people. There is no dream that is too big to capture, there is no great goodness that you do not deserve, believe in yourself and the best will always fall into your palms. You are an angel, you are a god, do not let yourself down. Good day ahead.

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Born from Uganda, Nemeyimana Vicent (Nemvicx) has become what people call, "coming from nothing to something". Professionally, he is both a nurse and public health officer and currently works with Mulago National Referral Hospital. In 2016, he wedded his wife and great sweetheart, Amulen Winfred (also a professional Midwife and counsellor). Besides their professions, Nemvicx is an inspirational writer, singer, motivational speaker, author of several digital books. He a theologian and blogger at (The Complete You Ministry).

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