The greatest Revenge: To be happy

The best and greater revenge you can ever do to those who hurt you, those who hate you or fight you is to be happy And let them know you are happily moving on, there is nothing that makes your enemies crazier like knowing that you are happy. Actually, even people who are not directly your enemies, people who work or walk with you, your friends, most of them like you simply because you are somehow not better than then. Start to develop, be happy, live life and show them that you are moving ahead, they will dislike you. Generally, people are that jealous.
Yeah, there is a woman out there who was used by this man and then dropped, there is a crying child down there who was dropped by the uncle or step mother after its mother died, there is a man here in the city who has lost his fortune or opportunities more than once because good looking babies took advantage of his innocence. And to all these heart broken individuals, they wish to find a way to revenge, a way to pay back for their losses and embarrassment. Today, i give you the right way to revenge: Fight hard to be happy, to move on and get better than your enemies ever imagined you could go.

While God asked us not to revenge, he asked us to move on and pray for our enemies. I do not think this entirely meant to run away from making our enemies pay for their sins, He simply knew we cannot revenge well or even better like Himself. When God says for your enemy, he is not saying that they will go unpunished, he is simply saving you. Because when you move on, when you become happy and pray for your enemy who wants you to drown, he faces an imaginable pain, the great revenge available. To carry anger against the man who used you will hurt you more, to forever dream about the students who teased or tortured you at school is to remain in prison, and to forever think of how to pay back to that political leader who sponsored the death of your parent is to limit your growth and possibilities. Move on.

What is the point today? The point is clear; our work, our fight should be to get better, be happy than those who hate us, that is the best revenge. If a man is your cross, find happiness in someone who truly loves you. To deal with those ladies that undermined your power and how far you can go, love your current woman and be happy with her. To show that boss who never paid your salary till you gave up, hold onto to your new work and find life in it and to show your enemies that you are better, find happiness by the very best means available, nothing pays them back like that; seeing the person they so much hate moving on and happily. That is why our enemies are sometimes important, they make or challenge us to move forward and develop more than we would without them haters

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Born from Uganda, Nemeyimana Vicent (Nemvicx) has become what people call, "coming from nothing to something". Professionally, he is both a nurse and public health officer and currently works with Mulago National Referral Hospital. In 2016, he wedded his wife and great sweetheart, Amulen Winfred (also a professional Midwife and counsellor). Besides their professions, Nemvicx is an inspirational writer, singer, motivational speaker, author of several digital books. He a theologian and blogger at (The Complete You Ministry).

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