Single & Searching? The Top 5 Hot Spots Where To Meet Your Future Marriage Partner!
1. The college/University
Back to my college times
And also, people are sort of expecting to settle down after college which is much different compared to high school relationships where people still have some journey in terms of education.
By the time we decided to move on and be lovers, we knew each other in and out and I am confident to say that it is partly why we made it through. For those who follow us closely, you have a glimpse of how our love story was tested beyond our strength and years and, up to now, none of us can explain how we made it out of college alive; the power of love! (We will come back to this in an incredible eBook we hope to share soon).
Yes, I have said it for I have seen it happen to people.
2.The Working Place
Here, we are specifically talking of working in the same company, place or same office.
For God’s sake, this is not the same as working class kind of relationships; these ones have a place on the list of failed relationships. Why so? This is for another time. For now, let us see the details of work-mate relationships. It is important to consider some working class kind of relationships come under service-oriented/market meeting place kind of relationships (we have it in this same article).
Actually, work place would overtake college relationships but at least two limiting factors lessen this spot 's core; some people at work are already hooked up (to be precise, they hooked up while still at school and so are not searching) and also working people have many issues other than dating and hook up, but it is only studying and relationships at the college.
Maybe also, the fact that the number of girls and boys in a college A is big offers great diversity for different choices and relationships, the unique advantage that some small companies may never have. Imagine, there is a possibility of having not even one beautiful and hot chick in a company of about 20-30 employees!
Oh no, don’t tell me you have never! And eh, listen up; I am not speaking of the old guys cheating on their wives and husbands with secretaries and drivers! I am talking of the young men and women deciding not to be alone anymore.
“being in a relationship where you work in the same place as your partner also means that you have something in common before you even get to know each other, and being in the same career means you are both like-minded and have similar interests”
If there is a lady that has caught your eyes at your working place, then invest in your desire and chase after her. Truly, chances are she will be your wife soon. You think I am joking? No, don’t forget to invite me when you make the party.
3. The Church/worship centre.
But before we judge that, is the church a dating place? (We will come back to this later in other articles).
I think the general reason why few hook ups happen at the church is because everyone has a way he or she interprets opposite sex relationships and this even gets more problematic among church goers! So no one, neither the brave boy nor the crazy girl is strong enough to say, hey, can we have tea or a drink together this evening?
I mean you are wondering, what will she or he think of me? Am I the devil in the church?
4. The market/service-oriented
Everyone was thinking of a boda-boda motorcycle, all except me! You wonder why I could not think of one! This shall be another time’s story, but I can give you a hint; the heart longs for that it can have. Really, I was poor.
And thirdly, I am talking of your equals who you serve in one way and they serve you in the other way round.
And then one day, the desire strikes; I want your services in a deeper and meaningful manner more than the one we already have.
Satisfied? Yes, I believe you have been helped.
If you have made your observations keenly, the strength of a relationship and ultimate end in marriage is so much possible among those who have had time to be friends other than strangers in the club or on a freight jet.
For God's sake, it is not common to play hide and sick with a woman or man you have been familiar with at school, work, church or even market place (has been serving you in one way or the other), but chances of playing each other and only hold on for sex and fun are more common among those who meet at the club, bar, wedding or company's feast or even in a hotel room or on a train.
Therefore, how and where to meet women or men may depend on your own relationship goals, needs and preferences”.
He even goes ahead and highlights these goals or needs as; for long-term relationship, short-term relationship, and for more specific preferences and needs.
Remember, having sexual relations that are outside marriage or that are homosexual in nature is a sin to us, the people and God, the creator.